Saturday, June 25, 2016

Would I Rather Date...

Day 25 - Would you rather date someone plain with an amazing personality or someone beautiful with a plain personality?

Well. Time to get philosophical.

What is a plain personality? Someone might seem superficial or disingenuous, but surely there is something underneath. The question there, is do they feel they can be themselves. And what is an amazing personality compared to a plain one? Do they simply fall into more extremes on scales of personality traits? I don't think it's a bad thing to kind of be in the middle. As long as our personalities are compatible and they have the qualities I'm looking for in a date, I think anything would be fine.

And as for looks, I generally find their inner self is what makes them beautiful.

4 comments:

  1. Exactly, well said :) Certain people are going to appeal to different people, so a person that one person might find boring will be awesome to another. And, like the quote says, people become beautiful when we really like them. That's always happened to me- I like their personality first and then I really like how they look.

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    1. Thank you! :) Very true. :) Yes, exactly!

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  2. I really love how you responded to this question. It's a little flat to think someone can choose between them both instead of somewhere in the middle.

    Misty Kasumi*

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    1. Thank you, yeah this question used to be a simple one but as you get to know yourself and others more, everything is a little more balanced.

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